Ever wondered what it's like for an adult woman who still struggles with past trauma and, or a lack of love from her mother? Or is that 'YOU'? Or are you that 'MOTHER'? A mother-daughter relationship is often portrayed as a sacred bond, a source of love, support, and understanding. However, for some women, this relationship is far from nurturing. Maternal neglect, characterized by emotional unavailability, indifference, "indoda over my children" or even abuse, can have lasting effects on a woman's life. I hope you gain something from this short piece on the impact of maternal neglect on a girl child and exploring ways for coping and healing for grown women still battling with past scars from their mothers.